Slice of Life Story Challenge March 21 - Cutlery Crimes



Cutlery Crimes

I was sitting with my notebook and a coffee at my favourite café, The Filling Station when I witnessed something that made me sit up and pay attention. I did the usual double take when you think your eyes are deceiving you. A women seated at the bench seats facing the window had just placed the knife she was holding half way into her mouth. A quick and decisive action. I put down my coffee mid sip and blinked. My parents messages regarding the suitable use of knives as dining implements came rushing back through the mists of time. I could hear the parent tapes of my childhood booming in my ears.
‘Never, never put your knife into your mouth when eating.’
‘Why not?’ inquires the infant, uneducated Alan.
‘Because it is extremely bad manners.’
‘Okay.’
…And that was that. Message received loud and clear.

Such was the value of sitting down together as a family at meal times. It provided the essential opportunity to learn the etiquette of dining. For me it equates to ‘share time’ in the reading and writing workshop. Both situations allow for matters of concern to be raised and clarification given, feedback offered and misconceptions challenged. Both provide vital teaching and learning time. It is where quality conversations take place.


I began to wonder about the mystery knife swallower at the window. Was I being harsh in my judgment? Was I being curmudgeonly and not moving with the times?  Am I becoming a dining dinosaur? Could be it that the focus of my affront was possibly working as a professional sword swallower with a traveling circus and this downing of the knife was an instinctive action?  Does she possibly suffer from a steel deficiency?

I doubt it and I had only drunk half a cup of coffee anyway. In my heart I believe this brief public action was further evidence of the breakdown of good taste in general. This was not an isolated observation. Knife lickers are an increasing phenomenon -as are knife wavers. I frequently witness diners waving their knives in the air with the aplomb of the legendary Zorro. Then there are those who choose to cut up everything on their plate into infant sized scraps before abandoning the knife and eating their miniscule portions exclusively using a fork. It is like they are perpetually three years old and need assistance with swallowing. Or is it that they are incapable of using both implements simultaneously for a protracted period?


I sat there wishing that an alarm could sound each time a person dining in public indiscreetly abused the use of their knife. That would solve the problem almost overnight. I smiled inwardly, took my pen out of my bag and opened my notebook… Knife knowledge needed!



Comments

  1. Anonymous21 March 2016 at 21:37

    I love this noticing, "knife knowledge needed!" - how clever. It's amazing how just sitting and observing these topics can reveal themselves to us.

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    1. Alan j Wright23 March 2016 at 08:25

      it's the observing that matters. when we sit still for a while things reveal themselves. It's when the fun begins for a writer.

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  2. elsie21 March 2016 at 23:39

    I love your sense of humor and the way you craft the words to show that humor. Knife etiquette is tricky, depending on where you are in the world. I try to watch the diners where I am, and follow suit.

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  3. BK22 March 2016 at 00:58

    Yikes! I had the same rule about knives in the mouth but purely for safety and that's what I thought about right away, just as I was wishing I was also writing at the favorite coffee bar. But I'm here on my couch waiting for a guitar lesson.
    Love your Slices, Alan!!!!
    Bonnie K.

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    1. Alan j Wright23 March 2016 at 08:28

      Your next coffee break might reveal some magic Bonnie...Thanks for your support.

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  4. Anonymous22 March 2016 at 01:08

    Humor, puns, and your keenly observant eye make this a winning slice, Alan! I'm not yet sure where I stand on these etiquette issues, but I feel confident I will avoid -- under all circumstances -- licking any knife that somebody *else* is waving.

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    1. Alan j Wright23 March 2016 at 08:29

      I like your style Brian. Beware the waving knife.

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  5. Alice Nine22 March 2016 at 09:03

    Okay... I'm wondering how she took the knife out of her mouth. I mean, did she open wide or slide it between her lips? As for licking their knives, since you brought it up, may those who do so cut their tongues! But I must tell you, when we stayed in Thai villages, we were not given a knife and our fork was never to enter our mouth. We were to use the fork to push food onto our spoons; the spoon being the utensil used to bring food to your mouth.

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    1. Alan j Wright23 March 2016 at 08:32

      She was a slider Alice. Interesting observation regarding Thai eating customs. The knife has been shelved.

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  6. Anonymous22 March 2016 at 11:20

    Now that you mention it...even though my mom always warned me about knives, I don't recall ever telling my son not to put it in his mouth...oops...

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    1. Alan j Wright23 March 2016 at 08:33

      There's still time Jennie. There's still time.

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  7. sroeck22 March 2016 at 13:31

    Your post made me think of my uncle! A dear man, but a knife licker and a bowl licker! When that ice cream is gone, out comes his tongue! Slurp! Slurp! Ugh!

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    1. Alan j Wright23 March 2016 at 08:35

      Now there's a visual. Your uncle clearly demonstrated a deep committment to never wasting a morsel.

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  8. PAMELA HODGES22 March 2016 at 14:27

    A fun observation. I hate knife lickers too. Maybe she is a knife swallower for the circus.

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